By Nonye Nkwocha
Gone are the days when women are quiet. When they prefer their choices made by someone else. Nowadays, the story has taken a new turn. Without missing words I can say Women are now hustlers- certified hustlers. Yes! I said so.
Who is going to sit back and let them be taken for a ride? You’d recall when momma always says keep your pride. Hell ya! I kept that and I became a woman, I did not change, I only became a hustler I stepped up my game. You would agree with me that women especially this 21st century has taken over.
Phu-leez! When I say take over, I mean including the earth men. Seriously, women are born leaders- I believe that has already been proven. I mean women are gorgeous, smart, strong and loyal. I’m going to beat the drum harder on that “Loyal”. Whether short, tall, fat, slim. There are just too good.
The question then is what does a woman really wants?
I did my research- internally though, I got responses like fashion, been exclusively grouped, popular, fame, married, good homes, caring and loving husband and this will amuse you competition. Then I asked, are all these tagged to been a woman or these are just nature’s way of appreciating the existence of women in mother earth. I mean compensating them. laughs
Then I pondered deeply and came to conclusion that these are women needs more like their wants and not their really wants. I mean no woman would say they do not like fashion even when attending the most spiritual church or mosque. All these have been in existence right from my great grandmother’s era. It’s just the circle.
But are these what women wants
Hmmn! I’m not in support though because she is smart not timid, she is strong not lazy, she is beautiful, charming, cool, an encourager, diligent, responsible and so the lists goes on and on.
Women wants freedom, transparency, privilege to do their thing. They are not some padlocks that should be kept locked at every given will. They want opportunities- in fact, they can create one. Bestow them with that and the results are going to be glaring. No regrets. Because when they want something done, it comes to past.
Women are powerful. They are big, focused and strong.
Let me put it to you. Do not despise the humble beginning but don’t discard the modern. Blend it and take no women for trash because if given a chance, you will get to be disposed of first.
Nevertheless, the craving for more is a distinct feature of women and it is not a bad thing because they long for perfection and let them be near that.I do not think the word lazy exists in been a woman. I think that word has lost its value in respect to what women wants.
You are a woman! What do you want? It is your birth right no one else can claim it. Stand out, be a woman and rule your world.
As John Wayne says “women have the right to work wherever they want, as long as they have the dinner ready when you get home.’ His right.
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